joy and pain

love deb. she does 'flashback friday' which usually is a list of songs on a particular topic. this week's is preceded with this: 'Heartache. Pain. Those two words describe the feelings associated with the ending of a relationship. Even the one who initiates a break up still feels some pain and a sense of loss. I mean you didn't spend all that time with and invest that much of yourself in a relationship with someone without feeling something when it ended. Right?'